no, this is not synanimous to rudeness or being inconsiderate or simply put "selfishness"......
this is acknowledging that bad things happen and learning to accept the negative everyday going ons of your life with a shrug.............. it is knowing that you are smart enough to know not to sweat the small stuff................ that "those things" are part of "growing up" and that the best thing to do is, well, yeah, you can mourn over it a little (psychologically speaking, it's not healthy to suppressed negative emotions), then charge it to experience, stand up, wiggle that butt and pat those dust away and step forward.............
don't you find it draining to brood over negative things for so long? i do...... and i find it irritating sometimes when i hear people complain about something that happened for 2 or more years ago....... i mean, is this your way of soliciting pity? do you think brooding over the nasty thing that happened in the past for a decade would undo things? ofcourse, not......
don't waste your time feeling sorry for yourself because it won't undo things.......
don't waste your time recalling the "nasty" things that had hurt you big time, it won't undo things......
don't waste your time thinking of the might have beens and could have beens, it won't undo things.....
yes, it's a waste of time and it would just make you all the more miserable............. so grow up and shrug it off........... stop sulking, get yourself together, throw away things that drive you nuts, plan your next move and thank the One above for the things that you have and for the new lessons He taught you and move on........ i know, i know, it's easier said than done but you always have a choice of choosing to be happy or to choose to be freaking mad at the universe the whole time.....
as for me, i just always sing these lines: "que sera, sera, whatever will be will be...the future's now ours to see...que sera, sera" ............ bow my head in prayer, talk to Him and say "You're my true north, my super GPS, you can recalculate my route whenever i chose the wrong road.... i know You have better plans for me and that everything happens for a reason..... but i'm weak and i'm lifting all my worries to You because i can't do this on my own and without You i am nothing..."
yeah, yeah, i know...... it sounded corny, but it works for me....... try it.....
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